tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post8852155427303414712..comments2024-02-29T07:10:59.852+00:00Comments on delivering grace: I don't like being a servantDeliveringGracehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08320150355352857841noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-52670434037401143512014-04-02T23:40:35.699+01:002014-04-02T23:40:35.699+01:00Thank you, Renee. I've had a quick look at the...Thank you, Renee. I've had a quick look at the link which looks really interesting. I look forward to reading the whole.DeliveringGracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08320150355352857841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-22274554622935090112014-04-02T18:56:35.636+01:002014-04-02T18:56:35.636+01:00Dear Sarah,
Thank you for your honest post. Perha...Dear Sarah,<br /><br />Thank you for your honest post. Perhaps having left medicine as an SHO, I was more used to servitude or at least a lot of running around :) I left medicine after having our first child and being born again of the Holy Spirit and so the Lord showed me in many ways how He was freeing me to be a woman who serves Him, my husband and my family. My husband also left employed work to serve the Lord and set up a business a few weeks before our daughter was born. I have battled, and am still battling in some ways selfishness and self-pity but Jesus always gives us encouragement in so many ways. You have received a high calling and deliverance from working in a system with much blood on its hands - you have other sisters in Christ who have gone ahead, picked up their cross, denied self and brought forth wonderful fruit.<br /><br />http://www.cfcindia.com/web/mainpages/book_window.php?book=what_the_lord_has_done_for_me&auth=annie<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t3vI2PRup5Q<br /><br /><br /> - may this be your portion in Jesus' mighty name<br /><br />Your sister in Christ<br /><br />ReneeReneehttp://bread-and-water.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-80676444480191775052014-03-21T06:55:38.792+00:002014-03-21T06:55:38.792+00:00Thank you, Erica.Thank you, Erica.DeliveringGracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08320150355352857841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-26378541441031609042014-03-21T06:55:11.506+00:002014-03-21T06:55:11.506+00:00Jennifer, I know what you mean about the depending...Jennifer, I know what you mean about the depending on your husband and God to provide. All the while, there is another income there is a sort of reliance on that. I do think that the first part of readjustment is most difficult.DeliveringGracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08320150355352857841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-68691306058343966982014-03-21T01:37:49.273+00:002014-03-21T01:37:49.273+00:00"Status...enjoyed that too much" Sarah, ..."Status...enjoyed that too much" Sarah, your posts hits close to home. It hasn't quite been a year that I have not worked outside our home, and it still seems to be a constant adjustment, even to not worrying about what others think. It is such a complete turn around from working and feeling entitled to spend what I wanted to actually depending on my husband and on God to provide for us. I will remember this next time I find myself complaining about honorable work. Thank you for sharing this. Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14688544739099660946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-49753772506238615362014-03-20T22:52:18.788+00:002014-03-20T22:52:18.788+00:00Great post - Thanks for sharing and being transpar...Great post - Thanks for sharing and being transparent!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00223639398575192973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-18037701010734877782014-03-20T07:40:38.184+00:002014-03-20T07:40:38.184+00:00Beth, yes, it is remembering to do what God has ca...Beth, yes, it is remembering to do what God has called us to even if parts of that aren't quite as we would have chosen. He knows what is best for us.DeliveringGracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08320150355352857841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-75804061228945612462014-03-20T04:54:55.773+00:002014-03-20T04:54:55.773+00:00Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate ...Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate your honesty. I struggle at times thinking I could be doing so much more but I need to remember what God has called me to do at this time and that is what is important. Praying that you will be refreshed and ready for tomorrow.As He Leads is Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04886201174365236934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-64417514089908080422014-03-19T21:41:44.854+00:002014-03-19T21:41:44.854+00:00Thank you, Hwee. I know what you mean about feelin...Thank you, Hwee. I know what you mean about feeling more in charge managing a responsibly job than a nine year old or five year old, for that matter!<br /><br />I couldn't agree more about the importance of being of service to those close to us.DeliveringGracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08320150355352857841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-16962801042009213682014-03-19T21:38:55.213+00:002014-03-19T21:38:55.213+00:00Thank you, Rachel.Thank you, Rachel.DeliveringGracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08320150355352857841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-65018358499557535552014-03-19T20:18:01.300+00:002014-03-19T20:18:01.300+00:00Dear Sarah,
Thank you for your honest post. It is...Dear Sarah, <br />Thank you for your honest post. It is an encouragement to younger women like me to see the choices you make, despite it being a great cost to you, and your commitment and perseverance. May God bless you. He counts as things of great importance, 'feeding the fatherless and the widows'.<br /> Rachel x Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16550738901649618055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-26243005427782355962014-03-19T12:45:16.741+00:002014-03-19T12:45:16.741+00:00I know how you feel, Sarah! It takes quite a chan...I know how you feel, Sarah! It takes quite a change of mindset (both from ourselves and from our immediate social circle) to accept that a mother who choose to stay at home to care for her family (young children and elderly relatives) is as worthy of respect as one who is in a high-powered job. This is speaking from my own experience of choosing to give up a six-figure, globe-trotting job with a very fancy title to having to introduce myself as a "housewife" nowadays.... :-) I certainly felt more in-charged and powerful at managing a multi-million pound portfolio and at managing my nine-year-old!<br /><br />While not trying to induce any sense of guilt onto you, I think it's important to look at the topic of "pride" and to assess whether our understanding of our self identity through various externalities (e.g. job titles, other people's value judgement, or what everyone else perceive to be important) is aligned with our true self. Once you've made that assessment, you'll be able to be more at peace with your decision and less resentment about the situation that you find yourself in.<br /><br />Being of service to those closest to us is just as important as, if not more than, being of service to thousands of strangers. :-)<br />Hweehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10895959128588945675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-23600587095738344812014-03-19T12:03:37.484+00:002014-03-19T12:03:37.484+00:00Thank you, Annie Kate! That is encouraging.
Yes,...Thank you, Annie Kate! That is encouraging. <br /><br />Yes, there is so much blessing in being at home and I'm sure that it is the right thing to do. God is teaching me lessons in not having the status of a professional. I'm sure that I enjoyed that too much. Ultimately, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks but that we should do the Lord's will. Yes, He has a plan and that is an encouragement in the daily round.DeliveringGracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08320150355352857841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1272887249587912361.post-55735049452598438172014-03-19T11:29:10.232+00:002014-03-19T11:29:10.232+00:00You just hang in there, Sarah Elisabeth! You'...You just hang in there, Sarah Elisabeth! You're doing what God has called you to do, so be strong and courageous and do just that.<br /><br />Yes, it can be difficult to give up careers to become 'servants' but, really, it is a blessing. I was just thinking, lying awake in bed last night, how giving up my academic career 18 years ago was like cutting off a hand that caused me to sin. It was the right thing to do because it was getting my priorities all wrong, but I would not have been able to quit it if it hadn't been for the children.<br /><br />Next week I'm giving my first academic lecture (guest lecture about the history of science at a Christian college) after all these years--not quite in my field--and I realized that by taking so much time away and getting my priorities more in line with God's, I have insights about the nature of science that few other scientists seem to. <br /><br />Also, even after all these years I'm still being told there are openings waiting for me...and I'm still turning them down because I have children learning at home.<br /><br />I don't know what else God has in store for me, but I do know that he is preparing me for it. You can be confident of the same. So just keep on doing your daily duties, whatever they are, and may God bless you.<br /><br />By the way, it is always inspiring to read stories of other highly educated Christian mothers who have made countercultural choices. Thanks for sharing.Annie Katehttp://anniekateshomeschoolreviews.com/noreply@blogger.com